Grieving in Autumn

Aspen leaves.

Can you make progress through the valley in this bittersweet season?

For many people, autumn accentuates feelings of grief and loss. My grandfather used to say that it was a time that made him particularly aware of lives ending and times changing. Also, the Thanksgiving holiday presents a challenge when there will be an empty chair at the table.

To cope, take daily walks and give yourself a little time just for grieving. Also, how about creating a new tradition? Think about what will make the holiday easier for you. Would it be simply giving a toast to your missing loved one during the usual meal or would you prefer to do something totally different, such as going out for dinner?

Meadowlark Press has published a small, encouraging book to use when you’re grieving: Walking Through the Valley: Grieving Well One Step at a Time by C.S. Boddie. It’s a friend that comes alongside you wherever you are in the grieving process and walks with you for a short time, such as one autumn or one year.

The twenty-one-day devotional has words and images to comfort and inspire, plus recommendations for resources. You can buy it on Amazon and Barnes and Noble.